In some spiritual
traditions, everyday life is considered "worldly" -- and
"lower." Consequently, the spiritual quest aims to leave
practical life behind. But for MOST people, neglecting practical affairs
is unwise, and spiritually unproductive. And for ALL people, to have a
truly spiritual life, EVERY aspect of life must be spiritualized.
The distinctions between "higher" and "lower"
become somewhat arbitrary when we view life as a whole. We NEED our
spirituality to pervade not only our specific spiritual practices, but
also our everyday activities and our relationships! To realize that goal,
we had better clean up our unenlightened habits and beliefs where they
flourish -- in everyday life.
A
solid foundation for a life of truth
There's always a child bold enough to think he
could run the country right now. But one cannot succeed by skipping steps.
Similarly, a strong spiritual life is built from the ground up -- on solid
practical foundations.
The apparently humble domain of practical living
is a good place to find and fix errant patterns of thought and behavior. A
few years ago there was a popular book entitled, "Everything I Needed
to Know I Learned in Kindergarten." The practical sphere is often
viewed as the kindergarten of cosmic schooling. (It is really more like
"adult education" however, because children -- and spiritual
beginners -- don't take it seriously enough -- yet.) We may not learn
EVERYTHING we need to know from everyday life, but we certainly get the
essential prerequisites for everything ELSE.
For example, in grappling with ordinary
situations, we learn to face and conquer our survival fears, get a grip on
tangible self-responsibility, and adapt to the rudimentary ethical demands
of getting along with others. All of these nitty-gritty victories are
necessary preparations for the high wire dancing we'll do in more in more
exalted states of consciousness.
Although handling our mundane obligations is far
from glamorous and may sometimes make us shed blood, sweat, and tears,
"taking care of business" in the practical sphere gives us a
tremendous -- and essential -- head start on our more sophisticated
spiritual endeavors.
To read more about the importance of
building a spiritual life from the ground up, click
here.
Implementation is partnering with God
Everyone knows that faith without works is dead
-- and that spiritual life, to be true, must be LIVED. Spiritual values
worthy of the name deserve -- and indeed call for -- living, dynamic,
real-world expression. After all, spiritual purposes of all kinds, both
human and Divine, can only be furthered to the extent that spirituality
finds active expression in daily life. Likewise, only living
implementation allows us to be instruments of God's work here on earth.
The prayer, "Thy will be done," may be
the highest of all expressions of spirituality. Likewise, spirit-inspired
implementation may be the highest expression of individual human will and
personal effort. Spiritual action is, in reality, a cooperative
partnership between the child of God and the Divine parent in order to
HELP God's will be done. For it has been truly said, "God has a
problem: He has no hands or feet." God NEEDS us to implement
spirituality here on earth. In doing so, we find our rightful place in the
universe as creative and response-able children in the family of God.
Opportunities for spiritual implementation
Ordinary life is ordinary ONLY when one takes an
ordinary approach to living. It becomes extraordinary when spiritually
lived.
The practical sphere of spiritual life involves
bringing spirituality to ordinary life in EVERY practical way. Spiritual
implementation takes many forms, including:
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responsible living, including practical and
financial self-maintenance, and appropriate health practices such as
wholesome diet and regular exercise;
self-discipline and self-culture;
personal service to human individuals and to humanity as a whole;
self-transcending teamwork and cooperation.
Living spirituality in everyday life is not only
our responsibility -- it is our joy. Invariably, living spiritual PRACTICE
puts fresh Spirit wind in our sails. The soul gains evolutionary traction
by implementing, in the theatre of manifest life, what is spiritually
known and felt. To the extent that we LIVE what we know, and bring our
spiritual inspirations to life, we don't just feel relieved of the guilt
of inaction -- we feel Divinely, sublimely empowered, delighted, excited!
What could be more satisfying than to bring a ray of Divine light into the
world around us!
Healthy life challenges
A yogi in a cave is peaceful, and why not? It is
relatively easy to be peaceful in seclusion, but that's no great
accomplishment. The yogi has eliminated from his life practically
everything he might find irritating!
We all have our own version of the yogi's cave,
in which we are blessed with wonderful spiritual experiences now and then.
Unfortunately, however, we lack the ability to HOLD that ground of higher
consciousness when we return to our ordinary circumstances. Yet isn't that
the implicit goal of spiritual practice -- the ability to maintain our
peace under conditions that are exciting, distracting, even upsetting?
Yes! We aspire to stable, unshakeable Spirit-consciousness.
How do we get there? We get there by rightly
embracing the everyday difficulties the traditional renunciant may have
excluded. We develop spiritual strength by cultivating spiritual responses
to the trials and tribulations of daily living. And luckily for us, life
has in store for us many practical challenges -- each of them an
opportunity for spiritual growth.
Rise to your challenges! Most people err on the
side of cowardice, underestimating their abilities. But excessive caution
slows growth. It is good to know your own weaknesses, but never
overestimate them, because that only feeds them.
Although some of our challenges are daunting, and
victory is never assured, there are three compelling reasons for taking
the bull by the horns:
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Win or lose, we are better off for having
faced the challenge. If we take God's dare, go into some of
those highly fruitful areas, and manage to dodge the pitfalls, then
we gain both strength and confidence. Even if we get tripped up by
our own liabilities, all is not lost, for even a challenge that
defeats us can leave us with increased determination and insight.
There is no victory whatsoever in running away from the
challenges. Conceding the battle before it begins adds nothing
to our strength, motivation, or experience.
Facing challenges is what life -- especially spiritual life -- is
ALL ABOUT. Life is for rising to the challenges, passing the
tests, and overcoming the liabilities. Remember, Christ didn't say,
"Withdraw from the world." Instead, he said, "Be in
the world, and not of it." He knew there is a reason for being
born here. It's spiritually appropriate to be in the world AS WELL
AS not of it. We grow only by facing challenges.
Take God's dare, and you will be glad you did.
Spiritual tests of practical living
There are different ways to view ordinary living.
One is, it's a waste of time. That view MAKES it waste of time. Another
view is, ordinary living is a test of spiritual values, soul intention,
and spiritual mettle. That view correctly sees the circumstances of
so-called ordinary life as a very efficient and effective way to uncover
and correct our flaws and to solidify our gains. How but through
real-world experience can we measure how far we've come; recognize and
repair our weak spots; and see where we've developed competence? In facing
everyday challenges, we gain valuable insight into our areas of strength
and weakness.
For example, it's easy to "love
everyone" while sitting alone on our meditation cushion. But in
ordinary interactions at work or at the dinner table, we find golden
opportunities to confront and gradually transcend our ego's persuasive
justifications for NOT loving this or that particular person in this
particular moment. NOW is always the time for spiritual practice. And HERE
is always the place to share higher love and higher consciousness with all
of God's children.
Some tests we fail, others we pass. But what's
really important in all the ups and downs is what we LEARN (and, of
course, whether we ADJUST accordingly). Even "failed tests"
correct our course, refreshing and refining motivations. Everything is
grist for the spiritual mill if we construe it that way.
Passed tests provide confirmation and
validation
Spiritual growth is hard to measure -- especially
in oneself. We can't just sit there and introspect about how we're doing;
we're as likely as not to judge ourselves wrongly. Also, too much internal
self-watching is spiritually unhealthy.
Here again, the practical sphere comes to our
rescue. We see objective evidence of our progress in our improved
performance in the theatre of living. Real increments of spiritual growth
may be revealed in practical-life observations like these:
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We're having a visibly improved influence on
others
We've got noticeably better ability to hold higher consciousness
through the fire of earthly hopes and disappointments.
We're seeing thrilling evidence that FOLLOWING inner guidance
creates marvelous results under real-world conditions.
We discover we actually feel grateful, not defensive, when we (or
someone else) sees one of our flaws -- because now we can fix it!
Do as the ADVANCED practitioners do
The importance of the practical sphere of life is
one of spirituality's "best kept secrets" -- because so many
people don't want to hear about it! A wise man once remarked, "My
instructions on the importance of the practical sphere are for my advanced
students only -- who else is ready for them?" Spiritual beginners
prefer to jettison responsibilities and relationships so they can focus on
things they consider to be "more lofty." Experienced spiritual
practitioners take their earthly commitments and relations far more
seriously.
Which group do you want to be in? The
slow-learning group, who look down on ordinary responsibilities, or the
advanced group, who recognize that every part of life is
"spiritual"? To go to the head of the spiritual class, embrace
the practical!